Sex All The Time

The fact that I was checking out daily for your recent post and am reading this as the first thing in morning makes me a sex addict.But i wish to add one more viewpoint.Currently being a forced bachelor,its but natural that the thing occupies my mind on a big scale.And being 40 plus in India makes it sure that one should not look forward to escapades of good variety.So what i mean to say is that may be a majority of us addicts are due to the fact that we dont get sufficient doses to douse the fires of passion.And in case any ladies are reading this would love to know if there are addicts among them also or the stereotyping of women being a searcher of emotional security is right?

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Well said, Rakesh. The Western notion of such an addiction may not hold true here in India, characterised by more forced restraint than in your face, carefree encounters. The equation is reversed here – at an age when people in more liberal societies may actually drop their inhibitions and go in for it without any hang ups, here in India the act past a certain age (differs by social strata perhaps) gains a level of stigma. Also, instead of an ‘empty nest’ (providing ample opportunities!) after a cetain age as in the West, here our nest tends to become more crowded, hardly affording a second of privacy. So all that talk of simply cuddling up any time without necessarily expecting anything, leading perhaps to more healthy physical relations later in the day, is talk for the birds.

So the ‘addiction’ here is more in the mind than in the act. Would you call a hungry person as ‘addicted’ to food if he’s looking at an attractive food item?

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yes deb,you are right.i was hoping some intersting views,but seems the topic is too risky that people are not even commenting.

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Sex addict ? Try ‘orgasmic meditation’. Or at least that’s what the sex Guru Vijay might recommend !

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LOL !!
To all you guys out there.. especially those who took the test…

I’m 31, F. Ive been in a monogamous and LONG DISTANCE 9 yr marriage, NEVERR cheated, had access to very minimal pornography. The only time in life i’ve “cheated” is when i was a teenager on mad-*** hormones, and even then didnt go the whole hog.

Im now single and in a monogamous (in my head) online virtually sexual fling. Rarely ever view porn.

And that test said i have sexually compulsive behavior and am a sex addict since it causes disruption to my daily life. So not to worry… everythings ok as long as u dont self destruct. the analysis and tests and therapists are bullshit.
And btw.. the answer is yes.. some women do crave detached, no-strings, fun sex… but dont indulge as easily as men do due to other factors such as safety issues if with strangers, and social stigma of being labeled if within their own networks.

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i’d agree with you Rakesh, that our focus on sex and all things sexual largely come from the fact that we do live repressed lifes, thereby making us sex addicts.

and yes women too can crave sex but are often into self denial. our society is not one which allows women to openly express their sexuality, desires, fantasies and so on.

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Well, women do have their Quota of hormones etc.But, if a woman tries to express herself in all societies she is immediately labelled as a woman of loose morals.Men, however are perceived as studs.

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things are changing,rinku.see how people are queeing up to get married to rakhi sawant.

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sure they are queueing up to marry her, but how many of them would accept her if she were to describe her sexual fantasies? the one small bit that i saw of that serial, had rakhi acting all demure and shy, rather virginal instead of the sexy item girl. I am not sure if that is the trend thruout, though.

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rose,does rakhi still needs to describe her fantasies when she is openly playing out the same,in disguise though.

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I have had enough sex from extramarital and merital in my 30 years in this earth.I used to buy condomes from a same shop at Tollygunj / Kolkata evry week for a year or two in my early twenties.
The poor shop keeper thought that i am a sex maniac or a regular to a nearby resident’s wife, which exactly i was.For the sake of his social and moral urge he followed me one day till i sensed him.
perhaps he could’nt berar the fact that ,a boy of his half age, having the full cake from his local plate and he is just offerring the spoon every time.perhaps he din’t sleep for days.
Then the very next time he asked me where do i live and why do i buy a pack of three evry week.why not a full pack of twenty.
I said that i am practicing to master over buying condoms as most bengali men feel shy to it.
He just got furius over it and started to abuse me with other two standing his side,untill a lady customer came in and i frisked away.
I didn’t go there for next six monts.
I had a meternal brother with whome i was pretty attached , though he was junior of 6 years.Our regular intimacy raised his mothers eyebrow and branded me as a gey. I would love to be gay but unfortunately i am not.I have not met him for years.
now i am married for last six months, having so called healthy sex life.Even there my wife finds me dificult to understand,calls me bias of sex, as i showed her the great ANDRES SERRANO’s artwork
SEMEN & BLOOD and the cover of Metallica’s load album.

SEX is a taboo in all the way whether its extramarital or marital or eles.

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“So China is unhappy”. india is also unhappy when china is sending its troops into the palk-occupied -Kashmir , an extremely dangerous whirlpool. what has china done to respect the structure of international relations with india?

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China learned a lot of lessons from Vietnam for long long time ago. No any countries around the world well known about fighting with China than Vietnam and also a lot of experience from Vietnam people how to do if needed ….

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LOL!! China!!! They should sick to eating cats and dogs, ******* Japanese rape victims!

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Another good article on the subject – http://fairobserver.com/article/united-states-and-asia%E2%80%99s-rising-giants

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“prices that are unbeatable because of cheap labour, capital, energy and land – could be coming to an end.”

Energy in China is expensive like in most of the world.
Land is expensive in China. It would be cheaper to acquire land for a factory in many parts of the US (e.g. South Carolina) than China.
Labour in China is cheaper than in first world countries of course but China has a per capita GDP higher than 100 countries so labour I assume would be cheaper in most of those 100 countries.

There are about 100 countries that are cheaper than China so cheapness is not why China has become a leading exporter.

Of the 100 or so countries that are poor or relatively poor can you name a single one other than China that has plenty of smooth roads, constant electricity, and uncongested ports? None. Not a single one. China is the only relatively poor country in the world with very good organizational skills. And it is for that reason that I predict China will be the only country of the bottom 100 of the world that will emerge as a first world country.

-CoverI
http://chinaoverindia.blogspot.com

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So how’s it important? its a fierce spectacle and will showcase best technology. But i still don’t get it, how is it important for India or Indians at large?

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it also shows a different India – Confident

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He was a legend in Assam.

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it is wrong to say that Dr. Hazarika was born in Tezpur. He was born in Sadiya.

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yes my exs parents didnt like me nor did her indian neighbors.very racist and prejudice.i wonder why they are in the uk when they dont have any respect for the people here.

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sujata pls cool down! pls dont get fustrated by thakrays! pls try to learn from your fellow tamilians! yes mumbai tamils are also laught at you! they proudly follow marathi culture and they love “amachi mumbai”!& pls pls dont get pissed of by thakreys!

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Yes congress will be succesful in Manipur and Goa and that will be the glory.
Congress supporters have already started putting excuses for loss in UP. The fact is that UP is make or break for UPA. if in UP congress doesn’t come at even second position, Rahul’s image will be dented beyong repair. This poll is semifinal for loksabha poll in 2014 and not winning in any major state (UK, Punjab and UP) should make UPA realise that their days are over.

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My opinion is that the government actually made an earnest effort in bringing a functional lokpal. However the 2 faced opposition is getting the effort scuttled. Also than, WHY has Anna not spoken a word against BJP for voting against the Lokpal? When Team Anna spoke corruption we trusted you Now that your choosing side’s we feel cheated!!

Actually feel that the article has some very sound analysis to it and in my view absolutely credible!!!!

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what do you think now after gov failed miserably in Rajya sabha. We knew congress is not interested in the lokpal thats why they didn’t agree to amend it as per suggestion of other parties. What happened to the spirit of parliamentry democracy?

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One of the rare well informed articles on this subject. At least some people are not bought out and willing to lay down facts instead of generally taking on the General

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Government stand in consistent and uncompromising that general’s date of birth can be considered as 1950 only. Ministry of defence has shown guts by taking such a strong stance.

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Do we see ominous sign of Civillian-Military fight? Will we see a coup one day when like of Laloo and Sonia will be hauled up in military court? Just thinking loud…

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The politicians and bereaucrats have a chip on their shoulder and an inferiority complex where army men are concerned. Therefore these scumbags never miss an oppurtunity to humiliate army people. They humiliated upright heroes like General Thimayya and Field Marshal Manekshaw among others. They praise Bin Laden as ‘Osamaji’. The megalomaniac Krishna Menon, defence minister under Nehru, used to call the Army Chief for 4am meetings for silly reasons. He and Nehru caused the army’s defeat in 1962 by their shoddy mishandling.

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The shabby treatment done to Chief of Army Staff shows the contempt that the Ministry of Defence has for the head of the Army. What confidence would the Military services have for the Ministry if their chief is forced to go the Supreme Court. It is time that the Armed Forces is given its due instead of the Ministry claiming supremacy on illegal actions of theirs. Wg Cdr Thomas Verghese (Retd)

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A bipartisan view of the case with factual details of the story.

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Hope India don’t go the Pak way!

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The stance of Chief is an unprecedented one and a bad one. He is fighting a battle for personal benefit and for a man of his position it is utterly denigrating to the institution. If he is fighting to prove that he is not lying, then why did he write to General Kapoor in accepting the age row as settled? Did not he behave like an opportunist? Govt. should sack him and send a signal to the Army barracks that they are respected there only.

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UPA II has faux passed all its governance in the last 3 years.It has abdicated its responsibility in 2G scam CWG scam Adarsh Scam and now the army chief age problem.PM is statue in PMs house.He is not taking any action himself but doing all his talks by promptings by sonia.DM is under sonia.The issue of age of COAS is a issue which should have solved by PM himself but as he didnot took any decision huimself it is made muddy.Now SC would have to say whatever it likes but damage has been done 2 army and govt.

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The General has been forced to take this drastic step because of inept manner in which the govt has handled this whole affair.The govt and the MOD has once again shown how it has over the years treated the Armed Forces and its heads with total disdain.Had been the case of rectification in the error in age of the Defence Secretary, I don’t it would have been done pronto with no untoward leaks to the press affecting the honour and integrity of person concerned.

Gautam Tandon

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Both ,Mr MMS and Mr Antony are the guilty and fall guys of 2012 Age scam

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Incompetant Govt Handling

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Maybe I am not too smart, but I still don’t get it! This “honor” part of the General. Throughout his career he went along on one age, got his promotions & medals on this age and now he suddenly wants the government to say he is actually a year younger – and that his ‘honor’ depends on that?!
What is the man upto?!

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The medals were awarded with 1951 as his date of birth. Where was the army record keeper? He should be fired.
Gen Singh should be appointed as a Governer of a state. After all these positions are kept
for such exigencies. Such appointments are seldom on merit. Before this appointment government should get written consent from the General that he will under no circumstances change his date of birth again. Tongue in cheek.

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Absolutely General Singh is Great Sodie no doubt about it. It is not a easy job to reach the highest position.In Jobs Seniority Counts and He got Promotions on the Seniority Basis after reaching the Highest Goal you cant ask to lower the date of birth as he may not be able to reach this position because other seniors may have promoted.

He is role model to India he cant fight this Case in this way, he is demoralizing Armies code of Conduct it is very sad that to of his Caliber very bad.

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First neutral article published by HT on DOB row. All along HT was acting as an extension of UPA mouth piece. How you maintain the stance.

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Can anybody please shed the light that what was the minimum age requirement to selection for NDA at the time Gen VK Singh’s enrolement and what was his age stand out to be if we consider his DOB to be May 10, 1951?

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If the correct date of birth of Gen V K Singh is May 10,1951 as contended by the Law Ministry as well as the general himself, Gen VK Singh was most probably not eligible, being under age for appearing in the NDA Exam in 1965. UPSC Need to examine the issue and clarify. It appears that wrong date was entered in the application form for NDA with the aim to make him eligible for the exam.”

It should be clarified as to the age limits criteria for entry into the NDA in 1965, i.e., if the DOB (Year) is claimed to be 1951, did this date come within limits? If not then the General is probably guilty of entering the army by fraudulent means. Was the DOB not compared with the Matriculation Certificate by the UPSC ? If not the UPSC officials should also be punished U/S 120-B IPC. We have to to first check this out.

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Having been placed in the situation where his integrity was in question Gen VKS did the right thing. However, I do believe that he should never have allowed the previous COAS to browbeat him in accepting a wrong DOB. His written acceptance will be the negative factor.
Sangha

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Has the Govt. got the right to change the DoB of anyone in this country?
An honest officer will fight for what is true. The DoB in the Matriculation certificate cannot be changed by anyone except a corrupt institution.

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“By and large the army is more honest than IAS or IPS Officers”. Who says so… or have you developed a Honestometer & put all IAS, IPS & Army officers to the test?
The fact is Army officers work under the garb of secrecy & national security while the deeds of IAS or IPS Officers are open topublic scrutiny. And as everyone knosws, secrecy begets dishonesty!

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Chappell has already been vindicated when he boasted before the Indian tour of Australia that he can demystify the great Indian batting.

If we look at ourselves, we can call Indian as a sub human civilization at best.
Compare Indian population and the Nobel prize winner.
Compare Indian population and Olympics gold medals.
Indian yearly population growth is equal the total population of Australia.

There are so many facts to prove that Chappell is absolutely right.
The problem is not only with what we are taught by parents but it is one aspect of problem. Indian enlightenment never happened and all we gained was due to Western rule. Hindu revivalism also happened due to British rule otherwise Indians would have continued with Sati and child sacrifice.

It is time for Indians to change their mentality if they want to be the actual super power that they dream about.

http://thepoliticalopportunist.blogspot.in/2012/03/religiousterrorism-drugs-without.html

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all you can do is criticize! india is no saint either.!

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PM should not have met Zardari, as this wasn’t his political visit. It was just a pilgrim tour. India is a emotional fool, expecting lot of things from a loser.

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We know Mr.Zaradari has no real power and he is living on the mercy of so called strong army man Kayani.He lives always in fear that coup can happen any time and just collecting corrupt money more and more.After becoming President Mr.10% rate has gone up.He did nothing good for his people and they are fed from his adminstration and want change.But for India there is no hope to resolve any of issue with this PPP president.My guess is his days seems to be over.

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Some in Pakistan like the LeT and many others are beasts; like our very own Sangh Parivar goupies viz the Bajrang Dal, Ram Sene etc etc.. We cannot kill those beasts, for that would mean killing millions. So the next best thing to do is try to tame them. Now this taming of the beast business is a very long drawn, time consuming and patience-testing one. One has to weild the stick as well as dangle the carrot before them. This is how the US is dealing with Pakistan – culling as well as carassing the target population. One cannot boycott or remain ignorant of a next door neighbour – whatever happens over there impacts us too like earthquakes, floods or cyclones as well as bouts of violence and incidence of extreme poverty and ill-health. Therefore PM Singh is handling the neighbours with the right amount of carassing – we always do the culling when required while calling ourselves peaceful (thats our Chankayaneeti – when our atomic-bomb tests are successful we encode it by declaring the incidence as Buddha smiled – how deadly can be this Buddha’s smile is not hidden from any body). So trade, culture and sports are the tools of taming that we have to use – and when push comes to shove then the Pakistanis have learnt it the hard way many a times that we can beat the shit out of them. Deal with Pakistan from a position of power and strength and yet in a tolerant manner – for that is the way to tame the beast.

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Arnab Mitra laments the allegedly “strong influence of Marxists among the journalists”- would he count Bartaman, Anandabazar etc among the Marxist influenced papers?
This is the most third rate analysis I have seen coming from a national newspaper’s editorial staff. Of course, Mr Mitra might justify his brain freeze on an education system right royally screwed up by the CPM. Or, is the Hindustan Times threatened by not being on the “approved list” of newspapers in public libraries?
I have no sympathy left for the people of West Bengal- they really deserve their rulers. As if suffering 34 years of left front rule was not enough, they bring in Mamata- with protectionist, left of left instincts (let’s not glorify them by calling it an ideology) and essentially demonstrated clueless-ness in running an administration- remember her stint as Railway minister?
The criticism against Mamata’s insensitive comments are as much a comment on her lack of sensitivity as lacking any idea about how to go about doing her work.
The tragedy is not Mamata or CPM; the real tragedy is the people of “Waste Bengal”- and their (as Nirode Chaudhuri would say) “atma-ghati”- suicidal instincts.

As an aside, the real comic element was in the this line: “We watched patiently as the CPI(M)-led Left Front completely destroyed a vibrant state over 34 years.”
Really? West Bengal was a vibrant state in 1977? It’s not tobacco that I smell here.

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There are lakhs of electricians, plumbers, vegetable vendors… and many self employed youth are riding motorcycle, scooters and mopeds… are they rich?? Such hikes really damage their day to day survival.
Let us take an example of an electician who moves using a two wheeler. Does not have stable income.. earns anything between 100 to 500 per day.. depending upon the season and work available. Even if he earns 15000 per month, do you fit him into a middle class? When the man lives in a urban village like badli, munirka, kotla.. on rented house..
While the hike is inevitable, the scrupulous way it is done – that’s what makes every one angry. Why can’t they oil firms keep increasing/decreasing every fortnight – as mandated. The morons running the UPA govt will not let them do it – because – it suits them to hold the hike before major elections and it does not immediately hurt them when the price is raised when there is no immediate election.

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Vladimir Putin, Lal Bahadur
Shastri, Sir Sheshadri Iyer & Sir M Vishweshwarayya’s grand-sons Ravindra
& DK Ravi, VS Acharya & BS Yeddyurappa (Churches were attacked; BSY was
CM; VSA was HM), Rajat Gupta (made Indian companies globally competitive),
Sanjay Gandhi, Rajiv Gandhi (converted to Christianity but was the son of a
Parsee Iranian Shia Muslim), Homi Jehangir Bhabha (a relative of Pakistan
Founder Mohammad Ali Jinnah), Shah Rukh Khan (father is a Pakistani Muslim),
Indira Gandhi (husband was the Parsee-Speaking Iranian Shia Muslim Firoz
Jehangir Nawab Khan Ghandy; USA President Richard Nixon sent USA’s 7th Naval
Fleet , carrying atom bombs, against India during 1971 Bangladesh war but
India’s trusted friend Russia sent its own naval fleet to defend India &
told USA that any USA war against India is a USA war against USSR; the furious
& sadistic Richard Nixon ordered for the assassination of Indira Gandhi
& her sons with the help of Non-Aryan European Christian male & female
human bodies, GPS & REMOTE SENSING SATELLITE – NANO & BIO TECH SENSORS–NEURO
IMAGER –OR – BODY SCANNER – NEURO SCIENCE – NEURO PHYSIOLOGICAL – NEUTO PSYCHIATRIC – NEURO & BODY CLINICAL
TRIAL – NEURO PSYCHOLOGAL – BASED REMOTE BODY AREA NETWORKS (BAN), REMOTE MIND
READING NETWORKS & REMOTE MIND CONTROL NETWORKS, REMOTE EVERY BODY PART TOUCHING,
MASSAGING, ROMANCING, LENGTHENING, SHORTENING, MOLESTING & RAPING NETWORKS
& REMOTE 24-HOURS-A-DAY TALKING, SINGING, SOUND BLASTING & SLEEP
DEPRIVING NETWORKS) Rajesh Pilot (a PM prospect & a future rival),
Jithendra Prasad (contested against the Non-Aryan European Italian Roman
Catholic Christian Sonia Antonia Maino for President of Italian National
Congress), Madhav Rao Scindia (a PM prospect), LTTE Prabhakaran, his sons,
daughter & wife (make Sri Lankan Buddhists & Sri Lankan Hindu Tamils
fight & weaken each other), Raja Ram Mohan Roy (failed to convert him to
Christianity), Narendra Vivekananda Paramahamsa (attracted European Christian
females, including the sexually promiscuous Margaret Isabella, who gave him STD
disease), Ramakrishna Paramahamsa (tricked him into worshipping his traumatized
wife as Goddess Kali) & Mahatma Gandhi (made to eat meat & hear sheep’s
voices inside his brain; killed by the European Greek Christian Nathuram Godse,
whose European Greek ancestors came to India during Alexander’s invasion &
European Christian Crusade Wars against Jewish Rabbi Freedom Fighter Joshua
Jesus Christ’s Jewish Israel & Muhammad’s Arabia), Netaji Subhash Chandra
Bose (made to have sex with Non-Aryan European Christian God Adolph Hitler
worshipping European German Christian woman), Aurobindo Ghose (did not allow his
wife to join him in Pondicherry but he was coerced into having a live in relationship
with a twice-divorced, sexually promiscuous French woman) & Jawaharhal
Nehru (did not allow him to sleep until 3 am every day until he wrote to Mahatma
killer & Non-Aryan European Greek Christian Nathuram Godse’s Greek
Christian relative Edwina Mountbatten) were victims of the Non-Aryan European
Christian & USA Conspiracy to monitor, manipulate & control Asian
Indians, Chinese, Japanese, Burmese, Koreans & Nepalese. OM!

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Periyar Maniammai University in Thanjavur-Tamil Nadu where they discriminate students from Kerala and other states.The staff treat students as slave because they are from other state and want to study.They don’t teach in this university and students just sit free.No proper examination system at all.University is just minting money don’t even care about the students. Many students have left Periyar Maniammai university when it was dilisted becauz of the torture they faced for being an other state student in everything.Periyar Maniammai University is worst university.Never should a student from Kerala dare to enter this palce.they don’t speak english but tamil and if some speaks engl tey laugh.Total a village where only students from village come and study, never join PERIYAR MANIAMMAI UNIVERSITY and spoil your life as we did in two years MBA department from kerala

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