Comments on: Sex All The Time

By: NILANJAN

NILANJAN — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 11:13:18 +0000

I have had enough sex from extramarital and merital in my 30 years in this earth.I used to buy condomes from a same shop at Tollygunj / Kolkata evry week for a year or two in my early twenties.
The poor shop keeper thought that i am a sex maniac or a regular to a nearby resident’s wife, which exactly i was.For the sake of his social and moral urge he followed me one day till i sensed him.
perhaps he could’nt berar the fact that ,a boy of his half age, having the full cake from his local plate and he is just offerring the spoon every time.perhaps he din’t sleep for days.
Then the very next time he asked me where do i live and why do i buy a pack of three evry week.why not a full pack of twenty.
I said that i am practicing to master over buying condoms as most bengali men feel shy to it.
He just got furius over it and started to abuse me with other two standing his side,untill a lady customer came in and i frisked away.
I didn’t go there for next six monts.
I had a meternal brother with whome i was pretty attached , though he was junior of 6 years.Our regular intimacy raised his mothers eyebrow and branded me as a gey. I would love to be gay but unfortunately i am not.I have not met him for years.
now i am married for last six months, having so called healthy sex life.Even there my wife finds me dificult to understand,calls me bias of sex, as i showed her the great ANDRES SERRANO’s artwork
SEMEN & BLOOD and the cover of Metallica’s load album.

SEX is a taboo in all the way whether its extramarital or marital or eles.

By: Rose

Rose — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 05:41:04 +0000

i concede…

By: rakesh

rakesh — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 02:39:49 +0000

rose,does rakhi still needs to describe her fantasies when she is openly playing out the same,in disguise though.

By: Rose

Rose — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 08:29:15 +0000

sure they are queueing up to marry her, but how many of them would accept her if she were to describe her sexual fantasies? the one small bit that i saw of that serial, had rakhi acting all demure and shy, rather virginal instead of the sexy item girl. I am not sure if that is the trend thruout, though.

By: rakesh

rakesh — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 03:39:16 +0000

things are changing,rinku.see how people are queeing up to get married to rakhi sawant.

By: rinku ghosh

rinku ghosh — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 18:02:34 +0000

Well, women do have their Quota of hormones etc.But, if a woman tries to express herself in all societies she is immediately labelled as a woman of loose morals.Men, however are perceived as studs.

By: rakesh

rakesh — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 03:28:15 +0000

why women only rose,it barely allows men also to express themselves openly.in that i feel there is not much difference between males and females.its the position in social hierarchy that makes it mandatory for women to be in denial mode,i feel.lot of young women who are tasting freedom are dropping inhibitions,slow and steady though.

and regarding expressing ourselves,i think men are more forthcoming in all societies,women being too passionately involved in the act to think about it afterwards.

needless to say,these are my views and would love to hear comment from everyone.

By: Rose

Rose — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 06:43:52 +0000

i’d agree with you Rakesh, that our focus on sex and all things sexual largely come from the fact that we do live repressed lifes, thereby making us sex addicts.

and yes women too can crave sex but are often into self denial. our society is not one which allows women to openly express their sexuality, desires, fantasies and so on.

By: rakesh

rakesh — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 11:46:52 +0000

Thanks heavens i didnt take the test,otherwise it would have suggested that I should be sent to orbit,and not fit to live on earth.I mean if it cud label her holiness,tia,a maniac,it wud hv been a natural injunction for me.

Thanks tia,am glad that pure souls still roam the streets.

And let me clear that everything that i hv written is supposed to be pure humour,and pls take in that sense only.We are getting anyway too few people to this ‘dirty’ blog,and i dont wish to make a rare member of brigade angry.

By: Tia

Tia — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 21:24:52 +0000

LOL !!
To all you guys out there.. especially those who took the test…

I’m 31, F. Ive been in a monogamous and LONG DISTANCE 9 yr marriage, NEVERR cheated, had access to very minimal pornography. The only time in life i’ve “cheated” is when i was a teenager on mad-*** hormones, and even then didnt go the whole hog.

Im now single and in a monogamous (in my head) online virtually sexual fling. Rarely ever view porn.

And that test said i have sexually compulsive behavior and am a sex addict since it causes disruption to my daily life. So not to worry… everythings ok as long as u dont self destruct. the analysis and tests and therapists are bullshit.
And btw.. the answer is yes.. some women do crave detached, no-strings, fun sex… but dont indulge as easily as men do due to other factors such as safety issues if with strangers, and social stigma of being labeled if within their own networks.