Private lives and public concerns



Mainstream Indian media usually don’t publicise the sex lives of politicians or celebrities, but mushrooming TV channels are changing the rules of the game. The secret recording of ND Tiwari’s brave bedroom attempts is the latest example.

That also raises the question of whether a public figure’s private life is a matter of public concern. If so, to what extent?

Just around the same time of the broadcast of the Tiwari tapes, in Kerala, the police arrested a senior Congress leader for “immoral activities.”

Short versions of the story had appeared in the national media but the incident was like this.

Rajmohan Unnithan, a member of the AICC and spokesperson of the Congress state unit was at the house of a party colleague, with Jayalakshmi, a third Congress leader. The house owner was not present. At night, a group of CPI-M activists – who belong to the ruling party – surrounded the house. Panicked, Unnithan called the police. The police arrived; and for hours did not see a reason for any police action.

But the CPI-M mob would not budge – they wanted Unnithan and Jayalakshmi arrested for “immoral activities.” Finally, both were arrested and subjected to a medical test to ascertain whether they had sex. The test proved they did not. Both were granted bail by a court next day, but by then CPI-M controlled channels and papers had celebrated the victory of “morality over immorality”; and Unnithan had been suspended from the party.

Isn’t it disgusting that a man and woman had to prove through a medical test that they did not have sex just because a bunch of goons suspected their morality?

CPI-M is never tired of pontificating on women’s rights and the need for more women in public life. Is it also part of the party policy to go around and ensure that no woman sleeps with whomever she may want to?

Retuning to the original question, the public concern about a public figure’s personal life must be limited to how it affects public policies. If a politician accepts sex as bribe and harms public interest, that is a matter of public concern.

Otherwise, what he or she does in the bedroom is none of our business.

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  • Nagarnaru

    The priorities for the BJP now are as follows:
    [1]Preparations for the ensuing UP Assembly Election
    [2]Throwing their entire weight behind fighting the SCAMS.
    [3]Preparing Modi for the PRIME MINSISTERSHIP.

    Capturing UP is a key factor to capturing Delhi. The citizens of UP are disenchanted with both CONGRESS & BSP because of the phenomenal corruption. SP has almost lost its sheen. Unless BJP puts its act together & concentrates on winning the UP,it will make their road to DELHI also arduous.

    The entire nation is in a state of shock. Astronomical amounts have been swindled by the present Government. Unless the BJP focusses their attention in fighting the SCAMS&bringing back the BLACK MONEY, the citizens of India will view BJP also with suspicion – whether they are also partners in the scam!!!!

    If there is an INDEPEDENT, UNRIGGED OPINION POLL today asking the Indians who they want their Next PM as, not less than 1 Billion are likely to vote for Modi. So let BJP concentrate on this

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  • Nagarnaru

    The priorities for the BJP now are as follows:
    [1]Preparations for the ensuing UP Assembly Election
    [2]Throwing their entire weight behind fighting the SCAMS.
    [3]Preparing Modi for the PRIME MINSISTERSHIP.

    Capturing UP is a key factor to capturing Delhi. The citizens of UP are disenchanted with both CONGRESS & BSP because of the phenomenal corruption. SP has almost lost its sheen. Unless BJP puts its act together & concentrates on winning the UP,it will make their road to DELHI also arduous.

    The entire nation is in a state of shock. Astronomical amounts have been swindled by the present Government. Unless the BJP focusses their attention in fighting the SCAMS&bringing back the BLACK MONEY, the citizens of India will view BJP also with suspicion – whether they are also partners in the scam!!!!

    If there is an INDEPEDENT, UNRIGGED OPINION POLL today asking the Indians who they want their Next PM as, not less than 1 Billion are likely to vote for Modi. So let BJP concentrate on this

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  • Candor

    Almost all BJP CMs have shown good appetite for development. May it be Gujarat, MP, Chattisgarh, Uttrakhand, HP, Punjab (in coalition), Karnataka, Goa. Should not forget it was NDA government who had brought the thaw in Indo-US relations throwing vast business and employment opportunities for India. India should be ruled by pro-development BJP.

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  • sanjay

    who so ever will be the PM he must have a quality of narendra modi– a best administrator in country

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  • Pallav

    Mr Modi can never be PM–period

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  • Abhishek Tondon

    Narendra Modi is going to be the next Prime Minister of India, regardless how his detractors and all those who’ve maligned him for 10 years, dislike it.

    Libels and Canards run by washer-men do not make Lordess Seeta less chaste.

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  • Anonymous

    everything depends on up elections in 2012. if the bjp can put up a decent show then they have hopes of even going it alone in 2014 –in that case modi can become the prime minister easily .
    it all depends at the situation in 2012 or after that . We know the politicians –they will gravitate to a partY or person who has chances to come to power
    another thing which is important is the stress we are giving to muslim vote –this should be marginalised .
    Political pundits are wrong in their assesment as they see the coming to power of upa 1 as the reaction of the aam admi to the bjp rule —frankly bjp rule was not bad , better than the congress but there was one difference which perhaps cost them the election POLITICAL. PUNDITS MAY HAVE THEIR OWN FANCY THEORIES BUT MY FATHER 1 YEAR BEFORE THE BJP LOSS HAD PREDICTED THIS LOSS–THE REASON , AS HE SAID THT THEY SHOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING DIFFERENT FOR THE HINDUS WHICH ALL WHO VOTED FOR THEM EXPECTED . AS HE SAID THEY DID NOTHING FOR THE HINDU CONSTITUENCY AS PEOPLE EXPECTED—– THE ENTHUSIASM OF THE HINDUS WHO VOTED FOR THEM WANED AS HE HAD PREDICTED . THE VOTE BANK OF BJP IS NOT MUSLIM BUT HINDUS –THEY SHOULD NURTURE THIS IF THEY WANT TO WIN . aFTER ALL 85 PERCENT IS DEFINETLY MORE THAN 15 PERCENT—-SOLIDFY , UNITE THIS VOTE BANK

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  • mohd anaskhan

    Million Dollar question is that when Modi has failed to manage 6 Cr Gujarati How he will manage 120 Cr Indians.

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    vinod Reply:

    Million pound answer is he is not their to manage the people , he is there for serving the 6 crore gujrati , & for your information he has taken the clear & clean steps which is followe by the people working in the state government & same will happened while ruling india as P.M

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    Anonymous Reply:

    Rajiv Gandhi failed to manage 5 million Delhites so how did he manage 800 million people in 1984?
    I know muslims are communal 99% of the time but it looks like you are communal 100% of the time.

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    Gaurang Vaishanv Reply:

    Congress “manages”, nay, manipulates people, mostly Muslims whom it has kept poor and uneducated for six decades. Modi does not manage, he inspires and enthuses. Results are for all to see there, if they have eyes to see.

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  • Ananthanarayan Na

    It’s a foolish write up and justify that muslims will vote for congress, as Narendra Modi is getting projected as PM , but of late muslims have also realised that sitting with congress for these many years has done no good and congress is considered as STUS QUO party.

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  • Famouspankaj

    it shall be blessing of God that modi shall become prime mnister of india -pankaj

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  • Mehta Snajay22

    NarinderJi is a fantastic personality. The man is full of moral character, ethics and having the spontaneous caliber to adminstrate and lead not only Gujrat, but India and its my conviction that India would be the Pioneer in world under his Premiership. I wish long life to NarinderJi as well as to attain his goal to lead the country for the well being of country.

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  • anirudh

    Before debating over the issue, think – who is there to compete with Modi – Rahul Ganghi?
    Wont it be a contest between ability and inability?
    The fact that Modi is the most able administrator and Rahul Ganghi is unable to do anything right, is not a secret. (So far only the Indians knew about it, now even the Americans do). In spite of this if Rahul Gandhi becomes the PM, wont it raise questions on the intelligence of the Indian voter?
    Shouldnt there be a reasonable criterion for the top job? The developmental work of Modi is for all to see (those who can not, should consult an eye specialist). But think – what can Rahul claim about, what did he do to deserve the post?
    Please think reasonably.

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  • RAMACHANDRAN

    Any patriotic Indian will pray Modi rto become Pm of India. Only pro western media and power hungry dynastic parties oppose him.

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  • vijay kumar

    Narendra Modi the next prime minister of india

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  • Gaurang Vaishanv

    What you are suggesting is typical Congress theory of appeasement of minorities. Modi has done noting wrong, no court has charge-sheeted him nine years after riots that were in reaction to burning alive 59 innocent Hindus by Muslims. He does not owe anything special to the Muslims and will not do what you are asking.

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  • Gaurang Vaishanv

    How do you know that he has not won hearts of others? May be you need to take off those colored, prejudiced glasses and study media reports all over.

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    JSW Reply:

    Media bik chuki hai, Porngress ke hatho me.

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  • Gaurang Vaishanv

    By any chance are you related to Shaktising Gohil or Arjun Modhwadia? If not, you should apply as their spokesperson. They have been weaving the same fantastic yarn for 10 years but without any success. So either people of Guajrat are stupid idiots who cannot see through Modi’s lies or you are a frustrated Congressi.

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  • Vikash2bharti

    BJP next PM face should be Mr. Nitish Kumar, then only BJP can win the next elections otherwise withe the face of Mr. Advani and Mr. N. Modi for the PM post, there is great chances BJP can loose the election.
    This is also known by BJP, I think thats why Mr. Advani started his rath yatra from Bihar, he is trying to convince people by showing next PM face will be Mr. Kumar.

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  • JSW

    are you idiot, I think you dont love india, that is why you hate modi, please support him to grow india, but if you will not support him, other people will, and he will become PM, please allow india to grow.

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  • Anonymous

    Instead of banning Tourist In Tiger Reserves GOVT should take some other steps to protect The Tigers.

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  • pole

    nice

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