Mumbai blues after one year in Beijing



At this time last year I was on a flight from Mumbai where I had spent six years, to Beijing where I had spent six days on a previous recce trip.

I have now lived in China for one year, a year that seemed very long on my own in 21M. I like to think that the M in my apartment number stands for Mumbai and suburban Malad where I used to live. My only friend in this 42-storey apartment is a young professional migrant from Mumbai. She spotted me last year and stalked me down the corridor till the elevator, surprised at the rare sight of a single Indian girl in Beijing — in her own building no less.

This weekend, I walked into her 27th floor apartment to share the rajma and rice she was cooking. I found a bowl of rajma on the dining table and two Bangalore girls on the couch.

The girls were visitors from Shanghai, where they had spent two weeks on assignment for the global IT major they work for. One of them recognised me immediately. We were from the same school in Pune and a batch apart.

“But why haven’t we seen any Indians in Shanghai yet!’’ the girls exclaimed at periodic intervals as we watched a DVD of Dil Chahta Hai on high volume. They asked this question at least five times. “We stay in the heart of Shanghai! We’ve not seen even one Indian face!’’

I know that feeling only too well. When I was in Shanghai last November, I didn’t bump into Indians either though there are more Indians in Shanghai than Beijing. All of China has about 25,000 Indians. But that day, as we planned their visit to the Great Wall (and mused that most of us had never visited the Taj Mahal) I didn’t feel 5,000 km away from Mumbai.

And I’m going home this week! To a reader in India the holiday list I am so excited about will seem like the boring basics:

Bollywood and salted popcorn at the multiplex:

To watch a movie at the multiplex closest to my apartment, for the equivalent of Rs 500 per ticket, costs a little more than taking the cable car to the mountaintop of the Great Wall near Beijing. China doesn’t import Bollywood movies. I’ve watched only one English movie at the multiplex during my Beijing year, on a half-ticket day. They only sell sweet popcorn. I never went back.

Satellite TV

In Beijing, Indian expats envy diplomats for their access to Doordarshan (though we hardly watched Doordarshan while in India). I plan to stay up nights changing channels at home. I will watch everything from the song and dance contests to the evening sitcoms and the constant election coverage. I have been stranded with dozens of Chinese channels I don’t understand and the choice of just CNN, BBC, HBO, Discovery and National Geographic. But I am lucky I live in an expat hub even though I am not allowed to rig my own dish antenna. Most suburban apartments don’t have any foreign channels.

The great Indian thali

I dream of the mega thali (elaborate platter of Indian dishes) meal that I could never finish in Mumbai. I will be crushed if they don’t serve it with bhindi sabzi (lady’s finger). I have not tasted bhindi since July. I no longer find it in the only grocery store that stocks Indian products in Beijing.

Book shopping

I’ve gone from buying a book every week to reading borrowed books at infrequent intervals. Beijing has few English bookstores and few foreigners who can afford the books. They buy books on vacation in India (six to seven times cheaper than in China) and brag to me about the cut-price when they return to Beijing.

The neighbourhood coffee shop

My apartment in the land of tea is surrounded by coffee shops. Some of them collapsed during the economic crisis. At a café with a French name, the staff once asked me to explain what is a latte. Every foreigner has a personal story of the search for Beijing’s best cup of coffee.

I have developed a terrible habit of calculating everything I could buy in India for the price of a decent cappuccino in China. A cup of masala chai in a five-star lounge. Something from Fab India. Footwear on Janpath or Colaba pavements. That thali lunch plus drink. The multiplex movie ticket plus popcorn.

Mayhem at the malls

In Beijing, the malls have either overpriced imported goods or fakes. The clamour and crowds that make Indian malls so vibrant are missing. I’ve been to Asia’s largest Ikea and the world’s largest Adidas store in Beijing and I got bored.

The Arabian Sea

I never thought I would miss the Arabian Sea. To my surprise, I have walked around landlocked Beijing silently missing the sound of waves, and driving past Marine Drive. Indians from Mumbai and Chennai say they feel the same way.

Indian Chinese Food

When I return from China, please take me out for Chinese food. Hakka noodles, manchurian with gravy, fried spring rolls, paneer chilly and Schezwan fried rice. Indian Chinese food is what we constantly crave while we live in, er, China.

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  • http://www.AnotherMovieGuide.com Rick Boyer

    A friend of mine just emailed me one of your articles from a while back. I read that one a few more. Really enjoy your blog. Thanks

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    Reshma Reply:

    Great to know that somebody is actually reading stuff shipped out of 21M…this blog is updated every Sunday night, but there may be a brief gap while I am on holiday in India. i’m curious to know which piece your friend emailed you. thanks…

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  • Madhav

    Hi there,nice blog.I’m quite able to empathise with this post.It’s now been two years since I started living in Surrey(Southern England), and although London is filled with Indians, Indian expats in Surrey are scant.The only plus point is that I have no problem finding Bollywood DVD’s or Indian food.I even managed to get Star News on cable(Can’t say I ‘m missing Delhi much!)
    I hope you enjoy Mumbai.

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    Reshma Reply:

    Hi…nice to know that we have a reader in Surrey!
    The only Hindi DVDs we get in Beijing are the ones we don’t want to watch…like the Drona DVD that has been sitting in my building’s grocery store forever. Rock On and Dostana were the exceptions and were quickly sold-out. When friends discuss the latest Hindi movies on email, I have no idea what they are talking about…

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    angad lamba Reply:

    Reshma, for how ong will u be in mumbai.
    i’ll miss middle order

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    Reshma Reply:

    Hi! I’ll post one more piece for this Sunday before I leave…there may be a two week gap after that…don’t know. Sorry!! I had no idea someone would miss the blog : )

    Kas Reply:

    Reading your blog for the first time (found it from ‘The China Beat’) Most of the blogs I read about China comes from Western ‘laowais’, so it’s nice to read from an Indian point of view.

    By ‘Indian face’, does that include those from North East part of India (like Manipur, Mizo, Nagaland etc.) I’m not talking about race here but they sure have looks much different from other Indians and more to Chinese. So maybe you girls have missed them in Shanghai or Beijing.

    Before I check your other blog post, I wish you a wonderful time in China.

    reshma Reply:

    Thanks. Yes, i mean all indians…not too many of us around in china…

  • Aniket

    If you really want to catch movies, you should get them of the internet. Both legal and illegal downloads (or better, streaming)… :P

    As for TV, for most channels, there are gr8 websites on which you can catch latest episodes!

    These days, it seems like, all you ever need is a decent speed net connection! Then you dont care for cable etc!!! Hope this helps!

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    Reshma Reply:

    Yup but watching movies on the laptop is just not the same!! thanks for writing in…

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    niraj Reply:

    hi
    i simply love your blog.
    its so interesting reading your experiences
    Lifestyle being my favourite section I am dying to be in your shoes
    Being all alone with hardly anyone you understand and vice versa.I can just feel the excitement of searching people of your SPECIES: getting together doing things that no one around understands: enjoying those small joyous moments (rajma chaval). It sounds fun.
    Also studying different cultures ,exploring them, understand people from other civilisations and explaining them ours
    hey what did it take you to be where you are??????????????????

    and also here is a bad News for you all Multiplexes in Mumbai are shut for this month and next all thanks to strike by Multiplex owners
    so many releases have been postponed (except for those so very avoidable Hindi filims)
    so only option is Watch Mi Shivaji Raje Bolatoy at a single screen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    also tell me whats do Chinese refer to India as

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    Reshma Reply:

    The Chinese call India as Yindu. Yes simple things we take for granted in india…like rajma chawal…become extra special whenever possible here. And multiplexes in Mumbai will be shut??!!!! in pune also?

    Mayank Reply:

    Should india follow china?

    niraj Reply:

    ya there is some fight between producers and the Multiplex owners over revenue distribution
    on yindu is a cute name is it derived from indus

    Priya Patil Reply:

    Hi Reshma

    Couldn’t resist taking a short break from work to check your blog. And after reading just 2 posts am waiting to catch up with the rest later tonight. :)

    Keep writing and hope to see you again before you head back to Beijing!

    reshma Reply:

    Thanks for writing in Priya! I am checking my emails after a week…and u popped up rightaway!

  • Sujay

    Hey Reshma,

    Just few weeks back I was contemplating idea of pursuing my higher education in China.
    Somehow the plan didn’t work out.
    After reading few of your articles, I understand how tough it would be for a hardcore Mumbaikar to survive in China.. :)
    Nice articles..

    -Sujay

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    Reshma Reply:

    Thanks for writing in…Actually it’s tougher for me because I work solo, no full-fledged office support structure with Chinese assistants like the rest of the expats here. On a campus your profs and colleagues would take good care of you. Good luck.

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  • Hemant Kapre

    Interesting blog. While I have read your pieces for the HT, I am reading your blog for the first time. I couldn’t help but go through the same gamut of emotions that swept over me while reading Pallavi Aiyar’s “Smoke and Mirrors”. While I admired the extent to which she went to understand Chinese life and culture as well some of the traits worthy of emulation which that society has, I could not help but get put off by : 1) the language issue 2) the exotic varieties of “non-veg” food there. Maybe you can tank up on good old papri chaat while you are in India !

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    Reshma Reply:

    Thanks…yes, chaat is on the agenda!

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  • Jaya

    Hi Reshma,

    I stayed in Shanghai for 6 months. Most IT guys in Shanghai stay in the expat apartments in Pudong..
    Nice place and very nice area.

    i agree, i also missed the indian Movies and especially the movie watching experiance of a multiplex.

    your blog reminded me of so many nice memories.

    the english movie DVD are so cheap. even a very good quality DVD can be bought for 10 Yuan. (appox. 50 rupees). I bought a full collection of DVDs !!!! My most prized possession of my shanghai trip!!!
    Another thing!! the electronic items!!! i bought dvd players and microwaves to india from china!!!!

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    reshma Reply:

    Yes Jaya, the English DVDs are a steal!!

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    Rajesh Reply:

    Hi, am new entry to Beijing….. let me join in this community.

    brought some Indian food items… and my cooking started with a grand gala….

    Once finish my cooking,, the kitchen will look like a battle field… yes… I literally fight in kitchen while cooking.. finally will make something to eat……

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    reshma Reply:

    Hi…all the best for ur stay in beijing…

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  • Jaya

    Hi,

    one more thing. 3 years ago, shanghi did not have a concept of curd. no shopping malls used to store them and climate being so cold, we have a so many stores on how to make the curd in shnghai in winter!!!

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  • Sharmishta

    Gosh I couldn’t agree more with your list and your errr woes! I have been in Suzhou, China for a year now and I am starving for many things. I really enjoyed reading your blog which seemed more like my diary, haha. I am a voracious reader and I have not bought a book for a year! I am aware of the short comings of my city back home but I still miss it terribly. Wish you a great stay back home!

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    reshma Reply:

    Thanks Sharmishta, do stay in touch and pls send me news abt suzhou whenever possible. i’m having a grt time bk home, and eating my favorite food. u can imagine how it is…all the best, reshma

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  • http://www.wifeschool.wordpress.com Rachel

    Hi Reshma – I’m an expat living in Mumbai for a year and I LOVE it. We just found out we are being shifted to Beijing from 1st May. I am so sad to go and reading your blog confirms my fears that it is going to be a tough move….I love your blog and will be reading from Beijing as a way of keeping in touch with Mumbai!

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    reshma Reply:

    Hi Rachel…good luck on ur move to beijing…if u r not going to be solo in beijing it may not be as tough…u will find it fascinating and one big adventure as well. i do too.

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  • Wei Ting

    Hi Reshma

    I stumbled on your website because my work covers both India and China. Your writing and perspective on China is so refreshing compared with the usual “Free Tibet” bias in chest-thumping Western journalism. I’ve only just discovered your website but look forward to reading more.

    And you are right, Indians are an endangered species in China!

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  • julia

    hi reshma, I’am indian too, living near beijing…it wld be great to hv an indian friend & explore china together.
    please mail, so we can be in touch & meet up.
    till then enjoy beijing, i love it here.

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  • Gang

    I am a Chinese native from Beijing. I met lots of India friends when I got my masters degree many years ago. I like India history and culture and would like to share my experience with you guys.

    If you have any questions regarding Beijing, I am very glad to help.

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    Generally I do not post on blogs, but I would like to say that this post really forced me to do so! I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the good work. Look forward to reading more from you in the future.

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    Reshma Reply:

    Thanks for writing in…

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  • Ritesh

    Hi Reshma,

    Found your blog in google. I’ve just moved to Beijing from Dubai for a few months. It’s been 3 days and am already desperate to see some Indian faces or talk to someone(English or HIndi….anything works)….like you am solo as well so I’m feeling exactly what you have described :) ….have to say though your blog was really cool and amusing

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    Reshma Reply:

    Try signing up for the Indian Community in Beijing association…hanging out at any of the Indian restaurants will also help to network…best…

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  • saurabh

    hey Reshma……….I am contemplating a move to Beijing soon……that too as the only Indian in the management ranks of a global IT major……….

    Your blog so aptly summed up the curious combination of curiosity, amusement and anxiety that every new immigrant faces especially to China….

    Not for nothing do they call this the inscrutable middle kingdom ! First thing i am gonna pick up is Pallavi Aiyar’s “Smoke & Mirrors”…….

    Whats ur advice to a novice greenhorn planning to live solo in beijing ( for the time being……..) ………what are thr basics to know of and where to stay ( I guess I will work in the CBD)…….I love a good adventure but this is one of those large looming unknowns !!

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    Reshma Reply:

    hi…you may be arriving when a v dry windy winter sets in…indian groceries are expensive, esp basmati rice. head to the indian restaurants when u get here, they are the best place to network with the community and get advice…there’s also an indian community in beijing association…find a good mandarin teacher! all the best

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  • Peter Hunt

    I can seee the obvious problem. That is the galloping birth rate in India which is poised to overtake China as the most populated country, sucks out all resources and India with its landmass cannot contain the poupulation growth. It will be menace to all nations of the world as millions of Indians want to emigrate. Australia seems to be the victim as is also Britain.

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