Quality experiences in India



I had one of those rare electric moments this week when I felt completely serene and relaxed, all my worries dissipated and Mumbai was the most beautiful city in the world.

I do not experience these moments:

  • Shopping in Linking Road market
  • Walking in slums
  • Sitting in noisy crowded restaurants
  • Crammed inside local trains
  • Surrounded by pulses and people and staff on ladders, wading my way through shelves of pulses in a kirana store

But I do experience them:

  • Driving on the road from Mahim leading to the Bandra Worli Sea Link
  • Sitting in the Sun N Sand Hotel in Juhu outside by the pool at sunset
  • Listening to Ghazals at my aristocratic friend’s swanky flat in Breach
  • Candy when he throws a party Watching Taufiq Qureshi play tabla
  • Having an Indian head massage

I had the rare euphoric feeling this week sat at Juhu’s The Novotel The Square restaurant sipping an Americano as the sun set over the swimming pool.

Everything was beautiful, calm quiet music was playing and I felt at one with my life and existence.

Despite being a new hotel, you somehow feel the history of its Holiday Inn days, when it was frequented by Bollywood stars, in the walls. The hotel already has a certain buzz about it, despite having just opened in July. There is a sense it will soon be the ‘place to be’ once more. I have to admit it is often in five star hotels in India when I feel these moments of serenity.

I had a similar feeling at breakfast at the Taj in Jaipur, when I visited with a friend Craig. We couldn’t afford to stay at a five star, but we could afford breakfast at one – so one morning we left our three star haveli and travelled by rickshaw to the palace.

We wandered up the green lawn stretched out before the hotel by foot and, despite having clearly not arrived in a car, were treated like kings by the well-trained staff. Some Indian musicians were playing sitar, I drank carrot juice and smoothies, ate croissants and had eggs cooked to my choice, the view was spectacular, the service phenomenal and we were both suddenly in love with India and with life.

I get a similar feeling in the Starboard bar at the Taj Mahal Palace and Towers in Colaba: you almost feel the history of the hotel as you drink in the smart white bar. It seems even more special a place now, given the tragedy that occurred there on 26/11.

Another time I had had the same feeling was staying at the Leela Palace in Bangalore on a press trip.

In fact, that very experience motivated me to leave Norwich and shift to India.

I was feeling like a princess wandering around between the pink pillars.

I remember the service was amazing too and I felt like I was on another planet.

I met an American man at breakfast and we got chatting. We both felt so inspired by India, we decided to leave our respective countries and move here. He joined Microsoft and I joined the Hindustan Times.

Its amazing how your feelings in Mumbai can go from despair to inspired just by changing environment. One minute you are in a beautiful moment, the next a slum.

It just proves what a difference being in an aesthetically-pleasing place can make to your experience and mindset.

I was thrilled to see this week that Nature’s basket has opened in Bandra. It sells everything I need, apart from cat food. It is clean and hygienic and has a whole range of imported products displayed in an a aesthetically-pleasing manner.

It makes a huge difference to shopping in the market or at crammed, disorganised kirana stores and has made a huge difference to my life.

The problem with shopping at the market is that you have to go to about six shops to get everything. Some meat shops in Mumbai are rather dubious as the fridges and freezers appear to have hailed from the dark ages, the frozen meat is partially defrosted and the fresh? Well, who wants to buy meat from a whole body of an animal and have it handed covered in blood in a plastic bag? There is one shop in the suburbs where if you lift open a box of eggs, you are greeted by dozens of cockroaches. I just don’t understand why Indian customers don’t make higher demands on some of these shops. In some of the them the staff look so poor, like they don’t even get paid.

Until recently I had shopped at Foodland Fresh in Juhu. It was the only place near me that I could buy everything I needed under one roof for a weekly shop, bearing in mind I need a lot of imported products.

When it closed I was devastated. Literally. I interrogated the watchman outside the empty store and even the staff in the shop opposite and none of them knew why it had closed I texted all my friends in Juhu asking them what had happened. None knew. This left with me no option other than to travel to the Warden Road Nature’s Basket branch – a one hour journey by cab.

Furious, I searched the net and an article on Mint said that Foodland Fresh was closing down most of its stores, quoting staff from there as saying they were unprofitable and the business model wasn’t working.

How can that be when Tesco and Waitrose make a bomb in the UK? So I interrogated the COO of Nature’s Basket. He tells me that their business model works as they stock mainly imported products, which have higher margins than Indian ones. He says that with rents and staff costs, it can be difficult to make a profit with Indian products that have low margins. That must be why so many small shops have fridges and freezers in such dire conditions – to save money.

Now, my life will be much better. I can shop in Bandra where I live.

I am delighted with the new store which stocks what I need: European cheeses, imported wines, healthy brown breads, tacos and gourmet pasta. I no longer need to wonder if the freezer storing the meat I am buying works.

The Novotel, the Taj , the Leela and Nature’s Basket in Bandra are quite simply all places setting high standards, offering stress-free experiences and that is what Mumbai can do with.

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  • Mick

    Nice to see not much has changed then the rough and tumble of shopping described by an expert on the subject a woman. Nice to see the avalability of wholesome English stuff along side the wonderful fresh stuff in the markets. But the first time having to shop for food to cook your self in India is a duarnting thing echo’s of Dervla Murphy and many other intreped women and some men who may at times have the word excentric attached. I didn’t have to cook for myself there but looking at the fresh veg markets and spending lots of time by the coast fish was always fresh because India’s culutre has evolved over thousand of years the food is just so good it makes anyones trip an unforgetable thing.
    Sept still looking good very hot today 80+ gently wind Nornal for Norfolk

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    Naomi Reply:

    India is famous for having an amazing choice of fresh fruit and veg. In fact people talk of stockpiles of fruit and veg…(I have no idea if it is true but in the same way that in the Uk we have stockpiles of butter, in India they overproduce on veg I am told….which is why the CCI wants to promote more processed foods). Anyway, that means that yes if you wander around Pali Naka market or Juhu market, there are lots of traditional veg and fruit stalls and it is all very charming and yes, when I came as a tourist I loved those places BUT
    when you live here and work a six day week you simply don’t have time for it and you WANT a supermarket along the lines of Foodland Fresh, Nature’s Basket and Hypercity.
    The problem with the market is:
    -The vendors may be ripping expats like me off, I have no idea what is going on when I stand there and order my fruit and veg. Somehow or other, whatever I order, each week, the bill is Rs300 at the veg stall and Rs300 at the fruit stall. Every time they hand me Rs5 back, saying ‘discount’ and I wander off wondeirng if I had been ripped off by Rs200
    - It takes ages standing there ordering the items. Once you’ve finished at the veg stall you have o go to the fruit one. And once you have finished there you still don’t have milk, cornflakes, orange juice,l, toilet paper, eggs, chees, tuna. chocolate milshake, fish, chicken etc and all the other prudcts you need. So guess what? You pop in a kirana. there you spend ages searching through the haphazard messy shelves searching for what you need and guess what? They are out of stock of some items….the tuna is the poor quality one, not John West,; the cat food hasnt been delivered this week…Then you discover that shop is vegeterain. So you have to go somewhere else for meat. You arrive and the freezer is dilapidated and the meat inside half defrosted. You complain and he brings out an entire cow, dripping in blood and asks if you want it. Yous say “Yes” nd then he chops off a chunk and hands it to you with his unwashed hands in a plastic bag. Then you discover they dont sell eggs. So you go to another shop, which does. But guess what? The eggs are not sold in egg boxes, but singly. So you buy them dropped one on the other in athin plastic bag…Then you need cheese. They dont have cheese so you venture to another shop which does, Oh and only to find that Edam costs about Rs500 ….
    Then after three hours you feel exhaustedm have spent more than Rs2000, you flag an autp home, carrying all kinds of tiny bags, the eggs have broken, the meat blood drips over you and you get home to discover that the fruit you bought is bad.

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  • Mick

    Further to my earlier reply This recession and the wholefood market,organic thing here is holding up well as it did under Thatcher but what makes me think this could be a new area for some go ahead kids wanting a business I don’t think there’s any problem with local suppliers I bet theres Western Wholefood Cafes/hotels where the food is aimed at expats and friends jamie oliver stuff tarted up a bit Indian and cost twice as much as would for Indian equivelent. This sort of place was hit but depending were it was I suppose I’ve eatern in places in Vancouver that i’d put money on surviving the recession just because you would go back. Funny old recession started when i was off the Alaskan coast in 2007 with Northern Rock I knew nothing of this inpending crash I read the business pages but was a little preoccupied anyway this didn’t bother me but the next time it happened were was I you gueassed it yes off the coast of Alaska and it happened again all over well the good news is I’m staying here this Sept so by the 3rd week the recession will be over. I had Durain chips in Alaska I think I spelt that right that fruit that stinks come in big packets like banana chips here thats what i thought they were at first. Keep your eye on up market food sellers good indicater of the economy. And my next lesson will be on teaching grannies to suck eggs. Good writing opens up lots of interesting things. Er I think I’ve got to go and see a man about some money and my acupuncurist so undoubtly I shall feel a bit of a P.R.I.C.K. is that how you like it big get round censors.

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    Deb Reply:

    Pardon my lack of grace but could you please, please put a few commas & periods – would make your very interesting comments more interesting to read. Sorry…

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  • Samip

    The article was good. She’s an expat. So she needs home products which are very expensive in india. I want to know whether she earns in indian ruppees or pounds. How is she able to afford all this? But still life is always good when you can live like this. But please tell me how not to feel guilty living like this. Morever i have never eaten in 5 star restaurants and bought imported food still i feel guilty eating cheese chops writing this piece on my mobile. Help me.

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    Naomi Reply:

    What are cheese chops? I eat at home mainly…and bring a sandwich to work for lunch..

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    Naomi Reply:

    which means I can afford it, by mainly eating at home, rather than eating out…I cook myself, I dont have a cook.

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    Deb Reply:

    Good point, Naomi. Many of us have all kinds of help, some employed at exploitative wages, but do “not feel guilty” about it. But they would supposedly feel guilty doing a lot of other things which don’t remotely involve exploiting another human being. Talk of double standards!

    Naomi Reply:

    Read the earlier blog Irritating expats (archived) if you want to find out what kind of salary I’m on…

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    vinod Reply:

    do you really think u r obligated to explain to someone all these details? Even Salman Rushdie has critics ( not the fanatic ones……i am talking abt literary critics)…..

    So Write On and Rock On!!

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  • http://www.rediff.com Paritosh

    well when it comes to the slums of Dharavi, I would say that they are an EMBARESSMENT for India. Our big time competitor China on one side is taking strides in changing the nation and here on the other side of the Himalayas we find appeasement politics taking place creating hindrances in the national development. If we Indians would have been patriotic in true sense these slums would have perished long back.Dharavi has most of the bases of organised crime in Mumbai like drugs, counterfeit currency, child prostitution and what not, even terrorists have been known to plan their missions over there. For a westerner Dharavi may signify “aesthetic”,”spiritual” and all sorts of NONSENSE but only a true Indian would understand that it is a NATIONAL EMBARESSMENT. the biggest thing that piss us off is that rich mumbaikars bring their foreign friends over there to show them the “real India”. Today it seems that Dharavi would not be dismantled by any of the damn mayor of this city in the years to come.Still I would just wish that this Dharavi gets dismantled sooner.

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    Naomi Reply:

    Don’t worry even London and the Uk was full of slums once (and stray dogs.) You should check the history out. I think all the slums were dismantled at the turn of 20th century…in London but until then we had had them as well. It is just a matter of time and they will come down. I certainly don’t find Dharavi to be “spiritual” or “aesthetic.” On the contrary I find five star hotels in India to be extremely aesthetic, sometimes more so than in the west, In fact that is one thing we admire India for intensely – your hospitality in hotels and restaurants is unbeatable and in five stars it is phenomenal….I was in the Marriott the other day and just looking at all those young men, so smart, so polite working in the cafes, and they have such great futures ahead of them..The staff in these hotels have an ability to make the guest feel so special, this is somewhat or very much lacking in five stars and hotels in the west.
    The Taj Hotel chain is the best in the world.

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    KJSS Reply:

    At last you got a place to buy things your can enjoy!

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    Deb Reply:

    Very true, Naomi. That’s what I’ve felt always while travelling in East & in the West. Hotels in most parts of Asia, not only India, have almost uniformly good service. The welcoming smile is what wins over the customer even to the extent of glossing over some of the minor inconveniences. They make you feel like a prince/ss, which is what a customer always expects.

    On the other hand, similar class hotels in Europe are deficient (by Asian standards) in both amenities & service: dingy rooms, no help (even with heavy luggage), surly service (mostly), no buffet breakfast, cold meals, service mostly not available at all times, and no customisation of either food or amenities for a customer. Hotels in West Asia and parts of Africa tend more towards the Western norms in this respect than the Eastern, though not as bad. The very ‘hospitality’ factor is missing, though the industry is named so.

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    Naomi Reply:

    You are right. In the UK shop assistants and cafe serves scowl…People in hotels in London generally can’t even speak English as they will hail from somewhere in Europe…The service industry in the UK is terrible…and people working in it are inevitably not English…as for Dharavi, I agree it is bizarre to think rich Mumbaikers would show off Dharavi to foreign visitors…Having said that it does have a lot going for it in terms of recycling businesses and entrepreneurial spirit. Dharavi is one of the better slums…It is the others like the ones in Bandra and Mahim that are pretty gross.

    Gaurav Reply:

    I don’t know why we are embarassed about something,when we are not doing anything to remove it.
    Someone rightly said,”be the change you want the world to be”.
    So,just make that right,and we would be pride to show,how we Indians have managed to do what anyone else wasn’t able to .
    :-)

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  • Raju

    you were left of centre as young person. how can you comfortably ignore the poverty and say that you enjoy the islands of prosperity amidst gruelling poverty else where.
    or was your left of centre orientation just a way to be popular in young days.
    or has your conscience slept since then

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    Naomi Reply:

    The difference is this:-
    I was “left of centre” when living a middle-class existence in the UK….
    Now I am living in India, where life is more of a struggle on a day-to-day basis, I aspire to home comforts.
    That does not mean that politically I am not left of centre. Of course I empathise with people in slums and frequently write about them and their lives, but it doesn’t mean I have to go and live in one, does it?

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    Deb Reply:

    A bit careful, Naomi. When we say “middle-class” in India, in most cases it connotes ’struggling class’ (what used to be ‘lower middle class’), not ‘upper middle class’ or ‘upwardly mobile’. From the context, I gather you may be meaning to convey ‘just one notch below rich’ when you say “middle-class existence in the UK”. Is that so?

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    Naomi Reply:

    Yes the word middle-class in the UK generallly means (on average)- privately eduated, posh accent, two car household, (min) four bedroomed detached house with garden, two overseas holidays per year…flat screen TV, tumble dryer; house would always have washing machine, dishwasher, full oven etc anyway..and be situated somewhere like Gerrards Cross or Ascot….hobbies would include rugby, croquet, riding, cricket and poker as well as attending balls; brandy would be referred to as cognac and they would drink single malts. Holidays would be in south America or the Caribbean
    Lower class or working class would mean council house /flator part council house, living in rough edges of council estate sof say Manchester, parts of London and Slough. comprehensive schooling; parents on dole; common accent; hobbies would include betting, football; going to discos, drinking in the local; brandy would be referred to as brandy. Holidays would be the British coast or Spain
    Lower middle class would be somewhere between the two above
    Middle class is not upper-class because that generally means people like Prince Harry and his friends; people with titles (eg Lord…the Great Honourable…) old money and artistocrats..
    There is also an urban /rural divide…

  • Raju

    the experiences you like are deprived to not just 99% Indians, but 99.99% Indians.
    I am not sure you could afford these in England.
    How can you enjoy such experiences amidst gruelling poverty and then claim to be left of centre, unless the left of centre thing was just a way to be popular with boys.
    where is empathy? you are worse than Indians who don’t want to watch slum dog millionaire

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  • Raju

    I call your electric experiences ‘ am fine, so is my panty’ capitalism – this loose translation of “main bhala, meri chadi bhali’ from hindi.
    How can a left of centre person like you get converted to capitalism of the sort of “I am fine, so is my panty’

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  • Raju

    If all your quality experiences are of living in standard comparable to UK, why come to India. You can’t miss on quality experience in UK, you can barely get quality experience in India.
    And what about the 99.99% Indians,(not just 99%) who can’t get quality experience and won’t for next 5-7 decades.

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    Naomi Reply:

    Well, that is question you should put to the Prime Minister of India, not me. He is responsible for upligfing the poor in India out of poverty. It is not my fault there is no welfare system here, as we have in the UK.
    It is up to the government to:-
    dismantle slums and rehabilitate people in them
    clean up the streets
    offer benefits to the unemployed, disabled and sick who cannot work
    offer free medical treatment to those that need it
    It isn’t my responsibility.
    However it is all about how we define quality experiences. For one person, that would differ to the next. So can you be sure that 99.9 per cent of Indians dont have quality experiences?

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    Deb Reply:

    Well said, Naomi. And not only the PM, it’s the responsibility of all of us. High time we stopped whining about Govt. not providing this or that, and started struggling real hard to get out of the morass many of us find themselves in, instead of romanticising poverty. And the new generation in India is actually doing it – entrepreneurship has gone up and people are creating newer avenues of earning, not only for themselves but for others. There is nothing to be gained by clinging to outdated mores and living with guilt for even aspiring to riches, much less acquiring them. Only a confident, doubt & guilt-free step forward can get us to our objectives, whatever they may be.

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  • Mick

    Oh Dear Raju don’t get your panty’s in a twist there’s a good chap and it’s pantry where you store for panty is where you keep something else most women keep their brains there. But not our Naomi if you read mr reply it’s a good indicator of the ecconomy in Norwich market there are stalls selling South African foods and Brazilian foods Thai this is a nice part of globalisation just don’t ask how the food gets there.

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  • Raju

    there is drought in the nation .100 million farmers are going to become poorer. Few Hundred millions of Indians are going to be malnourished and your quality experience in eating in Five Star Hotel?

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    Naomi Reply:

    I still don’t understand what you want me to do….I am not responsible for the farmers’ problems…I have seen that film on Vidarbha which I would advise everyone to see…called Summer 2007…and I empathise with their plight…..but short of joining an NGO and working in Vidarbha (when I dont even have the language skills) what can I do…?.
    I am not the state minister for agriculture…Or you are suggesting I boycott five stars to show empathy with the farmers’ plight?

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  • http://www.rediff.com Paritosh

    In the London atleast there were no appeasement politics and there was a united public opinion that slums be dismantled, however that cannot be seen over here and therefore it seems impossible that Dharavi would be dismantled in the future. It may happen perhaps when Dharavi becomes India’s national identity in the West and westerners piss off the Indians asking irritating queries related to that.

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  • viksdes

    naomi there is In and Out at Bandra, near the gas station on link road..i think it’s much better than the kirana dukaans!..I think what Raju wnats to say is this country has much bigger problems..i do agree with you that the guy is completely addressing it to a wrong person..you see what the daily hassles, pollution and non tranquille life does to us in india, :) peopel here just want to vent their frustrations , hence they honk, hence they fight and swear..we are a deprived nation!

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  • Raju

    naomi is left of centre….so she must realize that her income if 100 times more than that available to lower middle class person who has to support a family and hence should argue for higher taxes but that would prevent her from enjoying five stars

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    Naomi Reply:

    I have got nothing against higher taxes. My question is where are the taxes being spent.

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  • http://blogs.hindustantimes.com kite

    Many Indians (the really rich and the corporate types ) go to five -stars too. These hotels are part of the tourism industry and do their bit. If they were so bad,they would have not been allowed to be opened on Indian soil. Moreover,they showcase India,its food,its hospitality etc etc and contribute to tourism,which in turn does have a role to play in more tourists coming to India,which in turn contributes to more jobs for people in the tourism inbdustry as a whole. Just because someone goes to such a place because she finds it aesthetically satisfying is not SUCH a bad thing. Its a matter of personal choices. Yes these are tough times and we should lay stress on austerity but by boy-cotting all five-stars,how will it contribute to the common good ?

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  • Kanupriya Singh

    Gulzar. Any day!

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  • Himalayagarden

    soldiering is not only a job but a life style. before stopping recruitment then government must create alternatives of employment and be able to offer just as good alternatives as both IG and BG. these soldiers, like hundreds of thousand of other nepalis have left nepal to work abroad as there is a lack of work, less possibilities, a wage not sufficinet to live on and many other reasons, government should firstly improve the conditions and possibilities of work at home beofre closing avenues and good possibilities abroad….
    colonialism….is not to serve the Indians or British but nepals largest threath is from her own politicians being corrupt, greedy and not serving the people….

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1607350817 Chris Brammer

    Sad that some should think the elimination of The Gurkha Regiment is a test of the new Republic. As usual the politicians have it wrong and are trying to make a name for themselves. It is more an indication of their lack of confidence. The British Army supports the brave and valuable traditions of the proud and noble people of Nepal.

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    India is full of vast culture & heritage like different languages, lifestyles. Here you would get a fabulous travel experience…

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